Fare thee well.
During a delightful dinner with two of my favorite DC damsels, the subject of blogging (not surprisingly) came up. In response to my lamenting about having nothing to write about, one of my gal pals said, wisely, something to the effect of “I can’t force myself to write. I have to be inspired. It has to just hit me.”
I remember when blogging was like that for me. I would see something, hear something, read something—and a post would begin rumbling around in my head. More often than not, that spark of an idea turned into a piece of writing of which I was proud (some more than others, of course). Occasionally, those pieces entertained and provoked others, igniting debates and kindling friendships.
Lately, though, nothing has made that light bulb above my head start burning bright with creativity. There are many things going on in my life, but none of them move me to write. And if I don’t have any desire to write about something, I can guarantee that folks out there in the blogosphere—myself included—won’t want to read it. My passion for “Drawn to the Rhythm” has waned, and I feel guilty every time I visit the site and the date of my last quality post is farther and farther in the past.
Therefore, I have decided to put an end to this blog, in an attempt to exit gracefully and with some artistic dignity in tact. It was not an easy decision—this little site has meant more to me and done more for me than most of you will ever know. It helped me through many a heartbreak, introduced me to some of my most treasured friends, and challenged me in ways I never could have imagined.
I could take a hiatus, but that would merely be delaying the inevitable—and I have more respect for this blog and its role in my life than that. I must recognize that this relationship is over without denying its past importance. I must recognize that every exit provides a subsequent entry, and that, as my favorite poet (T.S. Eliot) wrote, “The end is where we start from.”
I suppose all of this is a bit melodramatic, but after two and a half years, dozens of happy hours, a few heated controversies, and countless laughs, I couldn’t just shut down the site without a teensy bit of explanation. So, there it is—thanks for everything, and I’ll see ya on the flip side.*
* My only remaining writing-related passion centers around food, so I hope to christen a new blog with that theme in mind. To be continued…
I remember when blogging was like that for me. I would see something, hear something, read something—and a post would begin rumbling around in my head. More often than not, that spark of an idea turned into a piece of writing of which I was proud (some more than others, of course). Occasionally, those pieces entertained and provoked others, igniting debates and kindling friendships.
Lately, though, nothing has made that light bulb above my head start burning bright with creativity. There are many things going on in my life, but none of them move me to write. And if I don’t have any desire to write about something, I can guarantee that folks out there in the blogosphere—myself included—won’t want to read it. My passion for “Drawn to the Rhythm” has waned, and I feel guilty every time I visit the site and the date of my last quality post is farther and farther in the past.
Therefore, I have decided to put an end to this blog, in an attempt to exit gracefully and with some artistic dignity in tact. It was not an easy decision—this little site has meant more to me and done more for me than most of you will ever know. It helped me through many a heartbreak, introduced me to some of my most treasured friends, and challenged me in ways I never could have imagined.
I could take a hiatus, but that would merely be delaying the inevitable—and I have more respect for this blog and its role in my life than that. I must recognize that this relationship is over without denying its past importance. I must recognize that every exit provides a subsequent entry, and that, as my favorite poet (T.S. Eliot) wrote, “The end is where we start from.”
I suppose all of this is a bit melodramatic, but after two and a half years, dozens of happy hours, a few heated controversies, and countless laughs, I couldn’t just shut down the site without a teensy bit of explanation. So, there it is—thanks for everything, and I’ll see ya on the flip side.*
* My only remaining writing-related passion centers around food, so I hope to christen a new blog with that theme in mind. To be continued…

14 Comments:
At 4:54 PM,
Hammer said…
Looks like we just lost another regular piece of the landscape. Been a pleasure - take care!!!
At 5:22 PM,
I-66 said…
Gah. This feels eerily familiar.
Sadness.
At 5:35 PM,
Velvet said…
Oh no! OH NO! WHAT HAVE I DONE!!!
I think that you are getting your creativity outlets satisfied elsewhere with all that you have going on, and so the blog and writing takes a back burner. And if it never moves back to the front burner, then you know why.
See you on the other side!
At 8:14 PM,
Arjewtino said…
So long, BJ, but at least we'll still see each other at the HHs!
At 8:35 PM,
Martin said…
Betty,
You've been a wonderful presence in the DC region of Blogtopia and I delight in having gotten to know you for the cool, smart, kind, and best-blogging-buns person you are.
We will stay in touch, blog or no blog. That's a promise. :)
At 10:25 PM,
aj said…
I will miss the wit with which you approach your daily life - please keep in touch. It's been a pleasure!
At 12:59 AM,
She says said…
Sorry to read that you're bidding the blog adieu. Thanks for the hair recommendation (got it cut on Saturday), the insights and the chuckles along the way.
I hope to meet you in person someday.
Best of luck to you!
At 3:27 PM,
Moxie said…
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At 3:30 PM,
Moxie said…
Say it ain't so. I hear ya on the decreased excitement to blog. It happens. Doesn't mean you should leave! Some of the best blogs out there are by people who only blog once a week or more. Just type when the mood does strike you.
At 1:43 AM,
Law-Rah said…
So great to have you as a part of this blogging experience...and soooo great to meet you. (Although this is not goodbye.)
At 11:44 AM,
freckledk said…
Who knew such a nice dinner could have such a sad (for me) outcome?
Will miss you terribly, but I know that I'll see you on the other side.
At 2:00 AM,
Asian Mistress said…
I have a feeling this is not goodbye...simply so long for now. :)
At 12:33 AM,
EJ Takes Life said…
No! Teh Interwebs needs Betty Joan! So you're just going to have to start your fabulous food blog right away.
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